My wife and I bought a strapless strapon so that she could peg me. She's a bigger girl, and the harnesses that usually come with strapons often don't fit her. It was similar to this...
(not the same though, it didn't have the textured bit that sits over the clit. That'll be relevant.)
It wasn't ideal though... It didn't really fit inside her so securely that it felt like a part of her. She couldn't really thrust. The only way we could make it work is if she lay still, legs clenched together to hold it in, while I rode her cowgirl style (I'm the cowgirl.)
Entirely defeats the purpose, because she didn't get anything out of it. And I'm no top.
The next day, she said "I think we were using it wrong." She reckoned it was for solo use double penetration. The long end (the dildo) goes in her pussy, and the short end goes in her ass. We tried that and it worked so much better. I was convinced she had to be right.
But I rechecked the store where I bought it, and there were diagrams and everything. Its intended purpose was definitely for two people, one penetrating the other, either pegging or two AFABs. And there are other brands, similar products allover the internet labelled "strapless strapons"
So does anyone have experience with strapless strapons? Were we missing a trick? Or is this some dropshipping scam where a product for one purpose is sold as being for another purpose.
Now, I can't find the exact one we bought. Looking for a link for this post, all I could find were ones that were more obviously for two people (like with the textured bit that goes over the clit.) I'd just buy one of those, but they're not that different from the one we bought, if that one didn't work, I'm not confident those ones would either.
(not the same though, it didn't have the textured bit that sits over the clit. That'll be relevant.)
It wasn't ideal though... It didn't really fit inside her so securely that it felt like a part of her. She couldn't really thrust. The only way we could make it work is if she lay still, legs clenched together to hold it in, while I rode her cowgirl style (I'm the cowgirl.)
Entirely defeats the purpose, because she didn't get anything out of it. And I'm no top.
The next day, she said "I think we were using it wrong." She reckoned it was for solo use double penetration. The long end (the dildo) goes in her pussy, and the short end goes in her ass. We tried that and it worked so much better. I was convinced she had to be right.
But I rechecked the store where I bought it, and there were diagrams and everything. Its intended purpose was definitely for two people, one penetrating the other, either pegging or two AFABs. And there are other brands, similar products allover the internet labelled "strapless strapons"
So does anyone have experience with strapless strapons? Were we missing a trick? Or is this some dropshipping scam where a product for one purpose is sold as being for another purpose.
Now, I can't find the exact one we bought. Looking for a link for this post, all I could find were ones that were more obviously for two people (like with the textured bit that goes over the clit.) I'd just buy one of those, but they're not that different from the one we bought, if that one didn't work, I'm not confident those ones would either.